Photo Boxes

 

March 2002

My Stories

Mother of all Road Trips-1

Mother of all Road Trips-2

Mother of all Road Trips-3

Mother of all Road Trips-4

Containing Jim in Paris

Ranging the Yellowstone

Lisbon Portugal- Part 1

Lisbon and Sintra- Part 2

Evora Portugal- Part 3

Coimbra Portugal- Part 4

Porto Portugal- Part 5

At the Mammogram Office

Carmel Art Gallery

Venice- Part I

Veneto- Part II

Ravenna- Part III

Cinque Terre- Part IV

Vernazza Bonus- Part V

Granner

Crunch Time

Putting on the Ritz

Granada and Sevilla

Amsterdam

Tuscany and Umbria - 1

Tuscany and Umbria - 2

Driving in England

Dwelling in England

A Dozens Reasons

In the Hamam

Istanbul Greece Diary

Pearl Harbor Team

Old Girl

Paris

Provence

Grandpa's Cabin

Pay-It-Forward Latte

England and France

N. Italy - 1

N. Italy - 2

N. Italy - 3

N. Italy - 4

Lessons from 4 Corners

Mexico

Going to the Dogs

Don't Embarrass Me!

Letter from Siena

Arrivederci Roma

Joining the Matriarchs

Living History

Newlywed Game

Chaos Theory

Zach on the Road

Huckleberry Season

Stanley & the Sunbeam

I Dare Say

Legacy

Middle School Relay

Grad Party

Yellowstone

Moving On

Radio Shack

Newlywed Couches

Visitors

Old Faithful Inn

Snowbound

Sweet Potato

Mother Bear

Two Blondes in Iberia

Revisiting Spain

Four Seasons Camping

Curly's Truck.

Disaster Restorations

Bobbie the Wonder Dog

Ducks and Beavers

Wearing Red

Photo Boxes

Las Vegas Soufflé

40th Birthday Party

The Heart Tickler

Wonderful Little Things

Heritage Tour

Erickson Era

Old Buildings

Chelsea's

Split Seams

All Nighter

Talent Show

A Look Back

Recently Jim and Taylor returned from McCall and Annie from helping with the babes of Sacramento. Zach had no interest in leaving his electronic world so I stayed home to monitor him, his friends and the in- heat dog. It proved a delightful week for me. I got some quiet time in a house that got only 1/4 as dirty each time I vacated a room, with a boy that slept different hours than me, yet was available in the middle of the night should an emergency arise. This boy is actually pretty man-like these days.

Without the normal flow of laundry, dishes, garbage, cooking and driving, I did whatever struck my fancy. I finished books that had been gathering dust on my nightstand. I rented movies for the first time in over a year. I got a hot stone massage where they put rocks in between my toes. And I still had time to spare.

The storage closet beckoned. Dare l? Inside was the job of a lifetime: boxes of photos and negatives in a state of utter disorder. I scarcely knew how to begin. The start was a little rough. I drove around three hours on one of the hottest days of the year in Jim's car with malfunctioning air conditioning, searching for archival storage boxes, only to locate them in five minutes on the internet.

A week later, I'm nearly done. I feel a sense of accomplishment akin to losing ten pounds. I also feel a sense of gratitude for a good marriage, healthy children, and an abundant life.

My photo albums are fairly complete and our kids pore over them occasionally, but yesterday I got deep into reject photos, some that had not seen the light of day in 20 years. I discovered a few gems which I lined up on our long kitchen counter. It is a line of our family history. Pictures that didn't make the album are little treasures now. Most are simple, everyday glimpses of our life. Jim in his Air Force uniform laughing at toddler Zach in the laundry basket. Zach and Annie climbing in a giant box at Christmas, ignoring the presents. Little Annie asleep with her eyes looking more enormous than usual. Kids dressing up in impromptu costume parties. Taylor and Jim playing Barney board games. Zach and Annie after a bath, rolled in towels, piled atop each other on the couch like a couple sausages.

I took fewer photos when Zach and Anne were very little and money was tight. Probably I was just trying to survive. The stack of photos from our two years at Faircrest Ct. just slightly surpasses what I take in a summer today. Even the lack of photos tells me something of our history. I think of Melanie now, with her three babies under 2 and a half years. Don't worry, Sis. Someday, you'll breath again.

The developer envelopes provide nearly forgotten addresses for our various homes in Portland, Virginia, Arizona and Salem. While I threw away most envelopes in my organization, I kept a handful as historical reminders of the many places we've lived.

Some of the photos are surreal. Jim and me standing in front of the World Trade Center, then inside on the observation deck, pretending like we're falling off. Good fun then, now almost too much to see. How the meaning of a single photograph can change over time...

Or the photos of friends whose marriages didn't last. They are so young, attractive and hopeful in their photos. I want to yell back through the years at them, to warn them to guard what is precious.

I am fortunate: our family's historical path is largely sweet. I don't think I could accomplish this organizational task otherwise. The sense of nostalgia ovenvhelms me. This would be an unbearable task if I didn't already know the satisfied outcome to the line of photos in the kitchen.

Everyone's back home now. My camera's loaded. The house grows messy. It's OK.